Monday, August 9, 2010

10 Sifat Calon Suami Yang Baik



10 Sifat Calon Suami Yang Baik

Jika anda seorang wanita, carilah lelaki yang mempunyai sifat-sifat berikut.
Jika anda seorang lelaki, jadilah seorang lelaki yang mempunyai sifat-sifat berikut :

1. Kuat amalan agamanya. Menjaga solat fardhu, kerap berjemaah dan solat pada awal waktu. Auratnya juga sentiasa dipelihara dan memakai pakaian yang sopan. Sifat ini boleh dilihat terutama sewaktu bersukan. means bukan x buleh bsukan. tapi, before g bsukan ptg ptg tu, pi lah solat asar dlu yea. n one more, suar pndek tu x yah lah kontot sangat kan. peha tu kami x dak rase pon nak tgok.

2. Akhlaknya baik, iaitu seorang yang nampak tegas, tetapi sebenarnya seorang yang lembut dan mudah bertolak ansur. Pertuturannya juga mesti sopan, melambangkan peribadi dan hatinya yang mulia. tak dak lah sampai yg patah sangat, tapi just a man yang buleh dianggap bertamadun in respecting women.

3. Tegas mempertahankan maruahnya. Tidak berkunjung ke tempat-tempat yang boleh menjatuhkan kredibilitinya.tmpat tmpat tu means x dak lah pi disco ataw pub n balik mab0k2 bau todi.. tmpat beranak nye s*t*n.

4. Amanah, tidak mengabaikan tugas yang diberikan dan tidak menyalahgunakan kuasa dan kedudukan. ni buleh dilihat dengan care dy handle keje keje pjabat, means that bile dy amek rasuah or etc, it depicts that he can not be trusted anymore.

5. Tidak boros, tetapi tidak kedekut. Tahu membelanjakan wang dengan bijaksana.ni sgt penting! bila laki boros, agak susah gak. jgn ingt pompan boros jep susah. since kenal kenal lagi, bab ni ptot dititikberatkan. coz, if not, ble da kawen t, bab bab nk bayor yuran buku susu anak akan jadik konflik yang sgt besaq!

6. Menjaga mata dengan tidak melihat perempuan lain yang lalu lalang ketika sedang bercakap-cakap. ni mmg sifat laki,n kdg2 terpakse dimaapkan. tapi ader kategori. means kalu tgah borak2 ngn dy, then tibe tibe another women lalu, dy tgok ngan mulot ternganga.......seyez, tuh bahaya!

7. Pergaulan yang terbatas, tidak mengamalkan cara hidup bebas walaupun dia tahu dirinya mampu berbuat demikian.ni pon pnting gak. bayang kan kalu mase muda nye dia ader gufren keliling pinggang.. it doesnt mean that bile dy da kawen, dy buleh stop cggitu jep, scpat mgkin kan. it cant be!

8. Mempunyai rakan pergaulan yang baik. Rakan pergaulan seseorang itu biasanya sama. yeah, bkawan biar seribu, tapi berchenta biaq 1..kan?

9. Bertanggungjawab. Lihatlah dia dengan keluarga dan ibu bapanya.ni pulak cm cite tanggang. kalu dy buleh lupekan family dy cggitu jer, tu bmakne jika kite as women, dy pon buleh jep tgalkan kite,,,.. cari bini baru.. kan? abes madu sepah dbuang.

10. Wajah yang tenang, tidak kira semasa bercakap atau membuat kerja atau masa kecemasan.aku caye sume org btakwa cggini. bila iman di dada, tak dak poblem yg tak dpat diatasi.

By: Imran Abdullah


Sunday, August 1, 2010

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Saturday, July 10, 2010

FroZeN

1 month i'm living without ice-cream, no cold drinks, no soft-drinks, no icy, no Jco yogurt, no ice cappucino Jco or Starbuck...

life is suck without frozen things :(

having bad cough ..

anyway thanks to Auliya for checking my sputum.. i'm free of TB..
tapi xvalid jgk coz baru once checked..should 3x... n xray thorax...

Moga saya sihat2 saja.. amin !

lalallalalal....

ended of Surgery department.. 17 Mei - 9 July 2010

Alhamdulillah exam Osce dh habis n oklaa *selamat nama naik for UP*
terjumpe Dr Anak on last Friday after Optek.. tergelak2 kan me coz 1st station wif him, i read the questions yg panjang lebar den i looked at him.. he said my face trus pucat can't answered.. hahaha... malu btoi laaaa... tapi overall sume dh settle down..
#Anak- necrotizing enterocolitis + perforasi, #Urology - torsio testis, #Ortho- osteomielitis kronis post traumatica,# NS- meningioencephalitis TB + kejang,# Plastic- combus/burn, #Cardiothorax- trauma thorax - hematothorax,# Onco- tumor mammae susp. jinak, #Digest- peritonitis ec perforasi gaster, #HeadnNeck- trauma zygomatica, #IRD- primary survey ABCDE.

Berbaloi with my hardworking .. bangun pagi penah 4am sbb nak g hospital at 530am Dr dh suh datang kt ward check patient .. balik penah at 7pm.. damn tired. Balik lewat blaja cases PBL kt patients, baca x-ray, ct-scan...type sane snih, nk blaja lagik den kne on-call lak..xcukup tdoq, mate sembap.. benci btoi ..

on call 4x kat Ruangan, 2x VK IRD, 1x OK. (1x extra coz i went up for OK nak tgk appendectomy)
tapi time jaga Ruangan .. something happen at G..i felt very2 bad.. skalik jumpe lgk same Dr yg jaga wif me kt OK last Friday ..i pun xpaham naper dier asyik nak ungkit2/perli2 .. like everything was my fault menyebabkan kematian patient tu.. (xleh cite scr detail what happen).
mmg laa rasa nak nangis.. hope it will give me a lesson to become a good doctor in future.

tapi saye happy dapat jadik ass-op for Herniatomy, Appendectomy + perforasi

*alamak..refrat Prof Puruhito xsiap2 lgk nih*
skrang nak berjoli.. shopping at TP.. Zara + MNG + Guess sales!! nak g SPA ngn Nad n Auliya, nak facial + creambath .. happppyyyyyyy :) nak tgk movie ngn kengkawan jgk..

Friday, June 18, 2010

Bapak Beca

when a Bapak Beca curious and asked me

"mbak, tadi barusan pulang jam4 pagi, kok jam5 pagi udah mau berangkat lg ke Rumah Sakit?"

i replied simple

"makanya jgn jadi Doctor"

:) :)

Friday, May 21, 2010

Urology Surgery

Sekarang dh 1week start stase Surgery..

Opthal dah habis dah..yeay !! *exams ngn dr.Prilia susah ok..detail gell soalan*

Surgery ~
Sekarang dh habis dh round for Urology..
PPDS best gell.. seniors baik.. sekretariat dier baik2 n frenly..
tapi penat skit la.. i started my day wake up at 430am.. gerak g hospital at 530am.. went back home around 5-7pm.. sampai housemate i, Nadhirah dah kangen2 dah ..sbb mcm xberjumpe je with me at home.. hahahaha...

today unlucky la,
xsempat naik tengok operation at GBPT. :( sayang kan...

anyway,
pagi2 kne ikut visit patients, morning report (and DM kne present sume case new patients)..
PPDS santaila..gelak ketawa kuat gell..n dieroang sporting.. xstress kerja..sukela tgk dieroang..

kerja kt Poli kne bwt SOAP penuh..
byk patients dtg ngn chief complaint with hematuria, urine retention, kolik pain, flank pain n lain2 laa
case mcm stone, BPH, cancer vesica urinaria, disfunction erectile..
so DM bwt anamnesa (history taking), check status generalis, check status urology including flank mass, pain knock CVA, external genitalia - circumcised, stenosis MAE, palpated testis simetris.. and the last is digital rectal examination ( indication for male aged above 40 yrs old) - to find out the spinghter anal reflex, mucous, consistency of prostate or nodule. (DRE is important to identify for BPH-Beningn Prostatic Hyperplasia or Carcinoma Prostate)

if kat ESWL (minor operation)
byk case kanak2 with hypospadia (meatus urethra at ventral of penis) coz congenital..
menjerit2 la sakit ... *sian jgk tgk..tapi nak bwt mcmne kan*
den dr.Anis baik gell suh saye pasangkan catheter at this guy (mule2 dier malu coz i'm a girl) tapi dr. Anis said to the young patient that i'm also a doctor :) *that was the 1st experience of psg catheter*

kat ruangan (ward H and D) i handle for 3patients..
cases; 1.stone at urethra, 2.staghhorn stone at left kidney and 3. undescensus testis with hernia
patients pun baik ramah tamah with me.. so senang i nak check patients coz xbyk songeh.. tq ye coz senangkan kerja i nak report kt my PPDS (residents)

anyway, pernah dgr case silikonoma penis? lelaki yg nak besarkan penis so dieorang suntik with ape2 liquid to make it more bigger.. either for sexual satisfaction or terikut2 ngn kawan.. 5days i'm in Urology dh ader 3cases.. so Prof Soenaryo asked PPDS to kumpul kan this cases as research..

ader 1 morning report yg plg bwt kami sume pecah ketawa termasuk Prof jgk.. coz ade 1 case ni pen tersangkut dlm vesica urethra *ok xmau ulasan lanjut lgk*

pokoknye best Urology.. PPDS sgt baik n tenter kami..
even blk lewat malam pun, kami gelak2 gembira je kat ward for nak hilangkan stress..

dulu kecik2 pernah cite2 nak jdk surgeon *tapi sekarang..? hahaha...*

Thursday, May 13, 2010

A CaLL

The best part when i saw "private number" appeared in my Hp screen while it was ringing..
and the happiest part when i heard my father's voice over the phone.."Assalamualaikum adik Intan.."

everything seems perfect to me..
when i told my dad & mom about my doctors, patients, studies, exams and others..

my dad was listening carefully just like he's a doctor and i'm the patient..
telling everything about my pain deep inside my heart..

it just like when a girl over excited when her boyfriend was calling her..
and everything seems like a rainbow in cloudy skies...
that's what i'm feeling because i don't have a boyfriend to share the real things...

a father can be the best listener, the best solution over mountain of problems...
the best shoulder to cry over like a baby, the strongest and protective bodyguard...

when we wanna hang over our conversation,
the sweetest words came over from his mouth was...
" love you "

mom & dad,
i love both of u over and over again..
everyday my loves ++ and become higher ..
it just like i'm addicted to my own heroine ..
" Ya Allah, please forgive my parents for every wrong doings they had done, healthy and happy life, and may Along, adik Chik and me always give the best results in everything to make our parents proud of us..kuatkan lah iman kami semua semoga kami sentiasa berjalan lurus.. jauhkan lah kami dari hasutan dan godaan syaitan" amin !